As many of you may now know, Dave and I announced our engagement publicly yesterday. It's been a crazy week letting everyone know and there are still so many people who don't know. I don't think that either of us could be happier at the moment! Sorry in advance if this post is covered in exclamation marks (!) because that's just how I feel :) if you don't want to read sappy, lovey-dovey stuff may want to look away now :)
Most people ask how we met, and so while I feel like I've mentioned this before, I'm going to tell you all just so you know. It's kinda an ironic story and makes the both of us believe in fate and destiny just a tiny bit more ;)
Last June I was looking for something to do (most of you know this) that would get me out of the house and out of school and around people my own age - not that I don't love my classroom and my school kids but sometimes you just need a break from being a teacher, especially at 22. I'd noticed signs around town that mentioned an adult league for soccer in Tooele. Since I graduated high school I have been relaying my woes of not having soccer for adults to anyone who would listen. I knew if I didn't sign up then I'd be miserable thinking why I didn't, but I was also scared - I hadn't played since high school, I was out of shape and had no one to play with me (which if you know me, is completely out of my boundaries to do stuff on my own). I drug my feet signing up and almost missed the deadline.
I didn't hear anything else about the league until nearly September. And then I missed the first game or two (I really can't remember why). So when I showed up I felt out of place and very young (no offense to anyone on our team!).
I hope I get this part of the story right, because I've been telling people the story....At the end of July Dave was supposed to be coaching a camp in Eagle Mountain and was notified that he'd received an academy position and that they wanted hin to run the camp in this little town known as Tooele. While there he met a family that was in charge of the adult league and they convinced him to register for the fall. I'm sure he didn't expect to be on the underdog team of the league, nor one of the best players on the team (I'll brag for him).
I'm not going to lie, in fact I'll be pretty darn honest - as now that we've been together I know most people do this - I fell in love with an accent (that was really about it because - and again I'm being honest - half the time I couldn't understand a word he was saying). We went out a couple times with my friends as just friends and when he left we started messaging on facebook. Oh facebook. Now when I say messaging I mean it. Think of your best friend and how you can talk to them all day every day and not tend to run out of things to say - yeah that was us. We talked between a 7 hour time difference, all day, every day. He'd wake up and message me then I'd message him until he fell asleep. Repeat. Most people don't really tend to believe me. I even had a friend just a couple weeks back who's known about our relationship who didn't realize till that night how much we talk, she was like "What are you doing? Writing a book?" as I texted him back lol (love you Em!).
By January I knew how I felt, that oh my goodness, this could be something. Strangely enough when I mentioned this to him in April he said he'd been completely oblivious until 2 weeks prior to our dating. Just shows you the difference between men and women ;)
When he came back in March it was a rough few weeks before we even hung out and I doubted that what I'd thought was something wasn't anything. Slowly we started doing things on the weekends and eventually I (yes, me) told him how I felt. I think to this day he kicks himself for letting me say it first, as that day we had been watching movies all day and he'd been trying to gather the courage (darling) to actually say anything. We joke now that the whole of Tooele knew we were together before we knew we were together. Literally.
I'm not going to lie, it's difficult with him gone for camps but I think we're built of tougher things. Our relationship hasn't been conventional from the beginning and I think that it's made it stronger, we definitely built a very strong friendship before ever building a relationship. He proposed to me in my bedroom (when my sister found out her words were "Really Dave? That's kinda lame!"), I thought it was cute! We were running late for a movie (2nd time we were trying to go to the movie by the way) and I was like let's go, let's go. He was in this mopey sort of mood and wouldn't budge. It took about 15 minutes for him to ask (by which time I'd kinda picked up on what was going on). Again, unconventional, but we wouldn't have it any other way.
Our (tentative) date is set for April 25, 2015. We want his family and friends there and I want time to plan. We're so excited to start this next chapter of our lives and hope you all are willing to be a part of it :)
I love you David, I know you'll be reading this (one day we'll appreciate that I actually wrote it out)! (And please correct me where I'm wrong).
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We took forever to choose this ring, but choose it we did - together :) |